Review: Mediocre by Ijeoma Oluo
What would a mediocre white man do?
How can white men be our born leaders and at the same time so fragile that they cannot handle social progress?”
Okay, so I’ll admit, I bought Ijeoma Oluo’s first book, So You Want to Talk About Race, last year, but I haven’t actually read it yet. It’s currently sitting on the bookshelf by my bed, mocking me. It’s not that I don’t want to read it, because I do. But I also want to read so many other books. There’s just not enough time! I’m going crazy! The books are winning!
Anyway.
I was on the waitlist for this book at my local library for a while. I finally got it last week, and promptly inhaled it. This book covers a lot of different complex topics, but it’s intensely readable. Oluo is so good at distilling the information down in a very simple, very accessible way. (I also highly recommend listening to The Stacks podcast episode with Oluo, it gives a lot of interesting background information about Oluo’s process.)
Oluo dives deep into the history of America; from manifest destiny and Buffalo Bill’s spectacularly racist Wild West show, to the rise of the Bernie Bros and Colin Kaepernick. The result is a fairly comprehensive record of just how much white male supremacy is embedded into our everyday lives.
“White supremacy is, and always has been, a pyramid scheme.”
I learned so much from this book. And it made me confront some of my preconceived notions, and reframe what I had previously learned about the history of our country. This can be hard to digest, and Oluo covers some hard topics, but I just felt hungry for more.
“It’s the expectation that many white men have that they shouldn’t have to climb, shouldn’t have to struggle, as others do. It’s the idea not only that they think they have less than others, but that they were supposed to have so much more.”
By far, my favorite section in the book was where Oluo discusses Bernie Sanders and the overt misogyny of some of his more rabid supporters. Not to mention his continued refusal to focus on anything beyond class. Honestly, she expanded upon all the misgivings I felt about Sanders during the 2016 election but was never able to verbalize. I could go on, but she sums all this up in one fantastic quote:
“The assumption that women would vote for women for no other reason than their gender is insulting to all women’s intelligence, as is the insinuation that women candidates who focus on ‘women's issues’ are also not concerned about economic or health care issues. In this statement also lies the quieter yet just as harmful assumption that white men only vote for candidates that center their own white male interests.”
Read this book, because things will never change unless we give a name to the problem, and confront it.